10 most unattractive traits in a woman
10 most unattractive traits in a woman that repels people unknowingly. If you could be mindful of these 10 behaviours, you can be the most attractive person in the room. Your confidence will shine through no matter what clothes your are wearing.
A woman with low/no self worth:
How dare you devalue your work and responsibilities as a home maker and a mother. How can you not stand in your power after creating another human being from your body and keeping them alive by feeding them off your body and then emotionally nurturing them to turn them into a decent human being for this society. How dare you! Do you know if men could do that, they would have labelled themselves as GOD already.
How can you not see that your mere existence bring beauty and peace in the world. A woman who doesn’t recognise her own power is pushed around by people and life in general. If you don’t know who you are then others will tell you. When you keep devaluing your presence, your energy, your femininity, it will be scattered all over the place energetically and wrong people will feed off it. Your worth comes from with in you because you are born with a value and that value is incomparable to anything else in the world.
A controlling woman:
Next time you feel you need to control something that is out of your control, remember you just need to trust. Trust in the process, people, God, words and then most importantly, TRUST IN YOUR INTIUTION. Your intuition is your protector and guide. Do not let other people’s opinions, judgements and logics block your intuition. I paid a huge price whenever I did that. Get in touch with your own body and feelings, be present with yourself, it will guide you more than your brain ever will.
A woman who can’t trust and has to control everything is blocking her own blessings. The walls that are protecting you are also blocking your blessings. That’s why people avoid controlling woman, especially in relationships because they are blessing blocker. She isn’t Lakhmi anymore. If you are from Hindu religion you would know what I am talking about. The more you trust, the more you receive. Trust is confidence, trust takes courage.
An Exhausted Woman:
A hyper independent, controlling, unhealed, masculine woman is drained and exhausted. Physically, mentally and emotionally. She is living in low vibration state. When someone is offering help, take it without feeling the need to return the favour. Just simply learn to receive. Not everyone is looking for something in return. Not everyone helps with strings attached. I truly believe there are kind people out there. The more you believe in good, the more good comes to you and your aura becomes relaxed and magnetic. A woman with haphazard and restless appearance is quite unattractive.
Allow people to do good for you. If someone is expecting something in return just because they gave you some food, you shouldn’t be with that person anyway. Allow yourself to receive these basic little things and gradually upgrade your receiving. Your happiness depends on your thought process and your believe system. Dare to think positive and counter your negative thoughts, you will see significant changes in your life.
A resentful woman:
When a woman is in her wounded feminine energy, she lacks vulnerability and is very fearful. She doesn’t speak up for herself when she needs to and then resent the person later. Which is the most unattractive quality you can find in a human being. You need to find a way to eliminate the fear of abandonment, fear of being judged, fear of being trapped etc. and just say what you want to say, when you want to say it with utmost compassion for others and yourself.
Being passive aggressive, taunting, crying is not going to help you and others to actually meet your needs and desires. It all goes back to the fear that we talked about. Eliminate the fear and dare to be vulnerable, stand up for your self and thank me later.
Desperate woman:
Let the master teach you (Hahaha). Oh I have been there. Desperately trying to find love, place to belong, trying to fit in. Believe me no one can understand this more than I do. But you got to take people off the pedestal. What you are looking for on the outside, I guarantee you, that God is directing you to find within yourself.
I am not here to lecture about self love because that is something you have to have to find the actual love in your life. But I am here to tell you that if you are “Desperately” Looking for something, I bet you need to find that very same thing within you. How can you do that? Well, it’s a long journey of finding yourself, some people do it sooner, some people are born with great sense of self. And for some of them it takes half of their life to reach there, like me. It totally depends on your child hood and how much negative you were already in, when you were born.
When you pick food from the place of starvation you will most likely pick up the junk. Remember that. Desperation in women shows lack of self worth. Hence, for what so ever reason you were starving, fill your own stomach first. The strongest women have trust and abundance mindset, that they can get what they want, whenever they want. Universe is working in their favour.
Women who lacks Compassion:
If you lack compassion for others, you most likely lack the same for yourself too. And that makes your aura unattractive as a woman. If you “Always” Give tough love, speak harshly about others, are judgmental, lack forgiveness then you most likely behave the same way with yourself too. Do you beat yourself up for small mistakes for next 3 days? If the answer is “Yes” then you most likely can’t forgive others either. I used to do that a lot and I know it made my aura dry, unwelcoming, rude, harsh and overall unattractive. There was no feminine juiciness driving my personality.
when you understand yourself, get in touch with yourself fully and heal your inner child, you will suddenly notice yourself kinder and more compassionate towards yourself and others. Being friends with your inner child will give you the happiness you can’t even imagine, that’s how you actually enjoy your own company. So go buy yourself a therapist and then we will think about that Chanel bag.
Argumentative woman:
Arguing with others to prove yourself right is basically you trying to prove your value. It goes back to the first point. When you feel your value doesn’t come from within, then you feel your opinions should hold some value. There is a time and place for everything. Disagreements is a part of every discussion or debate but it sure as hell doesn’t need to turn into a loud, head scracher argument. When a woman doesn’t realises her power is in silence, she over share, over talk, disrupt people when they are speaking, gives unsolicited advice and hides it behind “I care about you”. Basically she is majorly driven by masculine energy.
Choose your time and place and your words will always be heard, your personality will always be seen and your thoughts will always be understood. And this will happen when you will detach from the over expectation of being seen, heard and understood. Irony, isn’t it? The more you look within, the more you see, hear and understand yourself. The day this happens, that day you will not be arguing with anyone. You will simply stand for yourself and what works for you and then remove yourself from the situation. Watch my YouTube video for feminine communication.
Woman with No self love:
Unhealthy food habits, no physical exercise, untidy appearance all the time, trouble in saying NO, lacking boundaries, people pleasing, putting others on pedastel etc. shows you lack self love. Let me say it loud and clear, THE MORE A WOMAN LOVES HERSELF, THE MORE PEOPLE AROUND HER FALL IN LOVE WITH HER. I said, the more she loves herself. Not selfish or self obsessed, but she simply loves herself. And love is never selfish. When you love something, you take care of it. Humbly.
Loving yourself is not just limited to your appearance, it completely changes your aura. When you are with a woman who loves herself, you will feel that you are in the presence of love and you will be nurtured.
Pessimistic woman:
Hanging out with positive people reduces your cortisol. Scientifically proven. Cortisol is a stress managing hormone in our body. Read more in my other blog about it.
Your brain is designed to protect you. It will show you all the hurdles that will arrive when you are trying to do something new and exciting. How you counter your brain and show it that something is possible, is called optimism. A woman who is stuck with her brain and let the negative hurdles win is very unattractive.
Someone who can counter the negative thoughts with trust is a very attractive human being. Who Who can believe in something unrealistic without any logics? A WOMAN. Hahaha. If you think I disrespected women with this joke, well I didn’t. I feel applying logic all the time kills the magic of the unknown.
This might make that woman look stupid, but that gives a lot of courage and confidence to the people around her. That’s why such woman who believe in you and your capabilities without any logics are captivating. She just goes with her intuition. She is a woman with trsut and abundance mindset who believes anything is possible. People underestimate the power of a woman who believes in you completely. Men tend to make it the reality when a woman completely surrenders and believe in them.
Quickly triggered woman:
The more you are triggered and offended quickly, the more your inner child needs healing. It’s rarely about what someone say to you or how they treat you, it’s majorly about how you react to it. If you are keep taking everything personally, that means you are subconsciously reacting to your past in the present moment. The more you make people walk on egg shells around you, the more you will be labelled as a difficult person, and the more you will make it too easy for them then you are a people pleaser.
It’s all about finding the right balance. I would recommend healing through therapy over and over again. Better investment than the Prada bag and if you can afford both, congratulations, you are living your best life, take advantage of it. The more you have emotional control the more you become desirable.
Woman with No Stillness:
Picture yourself rushed, anxious, running to reach somewhere quickly, you hair look like you got an electric shock. You are speaking quickly to be heard, getting into an argument to be right, picking that water bottle like it’s the last one on the planet earth, looking here and there anxiously to find something etc. did you find yourself attractive in that energy?
Now imagine this, you are moving slow and sensually everywhere you go. Walking slowly and reaching the door but someone already has opened the door for you. You slowly turn your head to look for something and someone suddenly asks you, “What are you looking for miss?” You are patiently waiting for the car to cross the road and suddenly the car stops and lets you cross the road first. How did you like this energy? The more slow you move and with stillness the more you glorify the room you are in with her aura.
It’s an everyday effort to become her. If you fail today, try again tomorrow by forgiving yourself for today. I hope you found this article useful. Leave your comments and subscribe for more self development blogs like these.
