Most women’s core is feminine energy and it is a receiving energy. Hence, women absorb the environment around them, and that’s why they are manipulated, confused, and influenced easily. Women feel judged, ashamed, embarrassed, controlled, unworthy, and weak because of their surroundings, and those surroundings start from childhood. Doesn’t matter how confident you feel the receiving energy will work like a curse for you and your surroundings will make you feel this way every now and then if you don’t draw a line. So how to draw that line and protect ourselves from all the negativity and take control of ourselves when we have been trained to listen to others all our lives? Keep reading.
Heal your feminine energy– Many women are operating from their wounded feminine energy today, and that’s why they are more into their heads than their bodies. Healing the feminine energy doesn’t mean that you need to completely eliminate the masculine but it’s about balancing both the energy healthyly where you operate more from your feminine and have healthy masculine to protect that feminine. Feminine energy is so powerfully intuitive that it makes you feel what is right for you and what is not. You need to be connected with your body to listen to it. The more you heal and get connected to your body and feelings the more it is easy for you to disagree with something that is not in your well-being. Meditation and journaling are something that worked for me to begin with. Move your body through dance, yoga, etc. to get in touch with your feminine flowy energy. If you are too much into your head, it will confuse you and exhaust you by giving you multiple solutions and suggestions and if you go with those instructions, chances are you still won’t be happy because your body is telling you to go in another direction which you are not listening to.
Be aware of how society affects you– Let’s start with men. They are misunderstood on another level. There is something called ‘hero instinct.’ Men want to be a hero in everyone’s eyes, especially their loved ones. Because men can’t seem to justify their existence, they feel valued and fulfilled by providing/serving others. Providing solutions, safety, finance, etc. is their basic instinct. Whoever is better at it, becomes the alpha, that is the competition men have among them. This is actually a pro up to an extent but the con is, if you are someone’s daughter, sister, wife, girlfriend, etc. you are going to get a lot of unsolicited advice and unwanted opinions because they want to solve your problems. It is so deeply rooted in them, that they don’t even realize that they are solving the problem anymore, it is so basic for them. There are some men who behave like a provider but they actually want something out of you. You want to stay away from these ones, every help is not a good help. Most men are trying to be valued so badly that they start mansplaining, cut you off when you speak, they will try to solve your problem when you just want to share, etc. Women need to draw a line which is called boundaries, and not get affected by all that heavy energy that is coming to you otherwise it will affect your decision making power. Men are just doing their job, but when it comes to you, you need to decide when that job ends otherwise it can be traumatizing.
Now let’s talk about how women put other women down. Women gossip, shame, judge, and embarrass other women without realizing that feminine energy is receiving energy, and the woman who is the victim right now will absorb everything. Her self-love and self-worth will be affected deeply and that’s where self-confidence comes from. This is been going on for generations now and it’s time to stop stealing your fellow women’s wind. As a woman we have to have very strong healthy boundaries, and develop our own brains otherwise, we will absorb all the energy that is coming our way and most of it is negative.
Start saying NO– Do you know what I am talking about? BOUNDERIES. Yes, saying No is drawing the line without any guilt which sadly women haven’t been taught. Most woman who says No feels a lot of fear of abandonment or guilt later. And because feminine energy is feeling energy, women make wrong decisions to avoid those bad feelings later. A woman who has received a healthy amount of love, care, and affection and has been provided with finance, safety, and solutions in a healthy way since childhood, doesn’t have guilt or fear of abandonment in saying No, they have high self-worth, which sadly most women don’t. Just a parenting advice if any parents are reading, treat your daughters right. My dear ladies, you need to heal, be aware of your traumas, and get out of it, otherwise you will never be able to have healthy boundaries. Without any boundaries, all your feminine qualities will be misused and will make your femininity wounded and this cycle will be repeated. Break the cycle.